Friday, October 2, 2009
Thursday, October 1, 2009
Love is blind? Or does love make fools out of people...
No, I'm not a sour grape and yes, I am in love with my husband. He has his faults but his wonderful characteristics and charm outshines his faults.. We argue and fight like normal people and God willing, I will stay married to him till death do us part, forsaking others, for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and health.. And all that..
What I can't comprehend is why some people truly make fools out of themselves all for the sake of love.. Giving their money, their dignity and pride, giving their souls for a lost cause or for so called love where the other partner is nothing but a parasite, out to take all he or she can out of the person who love them until such time when the one who love is nothing more then a pathetic shadow of themselves and have nothing more to give and they will then be discarded..
I truly cannot comprehend that. The ones who love these parasites are just so blinded by their partner's 'glamour' and willingly give of whatever they can.
I can't help feeling sorry for these people. I've seen some of my friends and acquaintances, both male and female, putting up with such parasites and I feel helpless at not being able to help them as they won't welcome any negative comments on their parasitic partners and are actually so over protective of their partners that they believe their partners can do no wrong in their eyes even if it's two timing them, abusing them or such..
When I hear of such, I can't help wondering if it's so hard to find someone who can love you and accept all you are and give you the best of them as well.. I know it's possible as heaven knows I've kissed my fair share of frogs before I found my prince and we are blessed with each other's devotion and love..
So guys and girls, if your partner isn't giving you all their love , affection and devotion as they are supposed to without asking for anything in return, I dare say it's time to show them the door and ask them to get the hell out of your life as you deserve far better..
What I can't comprehend is why some people truly make fools out of themselves all for the sake of love.. Giving their money, their dignity and pride, giving their souls for a lost cause or for so called love where the other partner is nothing but a parasite, out to take all he or she can out of the person who love them until such time when the one who love is nothing more then a pathetic shadow of themselves and have nothing more to give and they will then be discarded..
I truly cannot comprehend that. The ones who love these parasites are just so blinded by their partner's 'glamour' and willingly give of whatever they can.
I can't help feeling sorry for these people. I've seen some of my friends and acquaintances, both male and female, putting up with such parasites and I feel helpless at not being able to help them as they won't welcome any negative comments on their parasitic partners and are actually so over protective of their partners that they believe their partners can do no wrong in their eyes even if it's two timing them, abusing them or such..
When I hear of such, I can't help wondering if it's so hard to find someone who can love you and accept all you are and give you the best of them as well.. I know it's possible as heaven knows I've kissed my fair share of frogs before I found my prince and we are blessed with each other's devotion and love..
So guys and girls, if your partner isn't giving you all their love , affection and devotion as they are supposed to without asking for anything in return, I dare say it's time to show them the door and ask them to get the hell out of your life as you deserve far better..
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